here’s what I realized—these weren’t my beliefs. They were handed down to me. And once I saw that, I knew I could let them go. I didn’t have to live in the same cycle.
So I did the work. Psychosomatics, support, right guidance, and daily actions helped me rebuild myself, piece by piece, digging deeper into the emotional and physical aspects of my transformation.
I’m not saying it was easy, but it was worth it. And here’s the thing: you can do it too.
You don’t need to spend 5-10 years in therapy—just a few months with me, and you’ll see real, lasting results. Somatic techniques, MAC cards, Family Constellations are the key to fast, effective, and long-lasting change. These unique tools allow you to go beyond the surface and experience deep emotional and physical breakthroughs. With the right guidance, they can transform your life in ways you never thought possible.
• Family Permanence:
I believed I’d never have a stable family because my mom and grandma didn’t.
Belief: “I’ll never have a happy family.”
• Divorce & Single Parenting:
I saw divorce and single parenting as life sentences of struggle.
Belief: “Divorce is bad, and single parenting means constant hardship.”
• Step-Parent Adoption:
When my dad left, I thought it was my fault—like I wasn’t worth staying for.
Belief: “There’s something wrong with me.”
• Male Distrust:
Witnessing my mom’s pain made me think men couldn’t be trusted.
Belief: “I can’t trust men.”
• Female Sacrifice:
I grew up thinking I had to give up everything to succeed, just like the women in my family did.
Belief: “To succeed, I have to sacrifice it all.”
• Economic Hardship:
My grandma’s financial struggles made me doubt I’d ever have enough.
Belief: “I’ll never earn enough; money is always a struggle.”
• Multiple Jobs:
I thought survival meant working myself to exhaustion.
Belief: “To survive, I’ll have to work endlessly.”
The Beliefs I Carried — and Broke Free From ...
Feeling: happiness is just something other people have.
Feeling: being stuck in a cycle of pain.
Feeling: I am not enough.
Feeling: I have to be perfect in order to be loved.
Feeling: happiness and success couldn’t coexist. It is always one or the other.
Feeling: money is always something like a fight, a constant battle.
Feeling: no room for rest, only survival.